Did I mention that I am incredibly thankful that these two little boys have one another? On the best of days, they are inseperable friends, spurring each other on with a healthy dose of competiition. Here, they are racing from side to side in the pool. It isn’t often we step in to remind them of their two year difference. In fact, I savor these days, where they can share clothes and shoes because they are wearing the same size.

Tonight after sending them off to bed, I heard whispering and discovered Henry had climbed into Paul’s bed. Earlier, when I came home from work, I glanced in their room to see both of them wearing their new backpacks and playing diver. They were swimming around the mermaid (Olivine) in the center of the rug.

is what Joe decided he wanted to do for his birthday.After breakfast, before the sun was too hot, we headed out.
An excellent opportunity for turn taking and practicing patience.
 We laughed as Henry hit it too soft, and the ball would roll back down (again and again)
and we laughed when papa hit it so hard it would fly off the mini course. He even lost one ball in the water.
Ollie would swing over and over and miss. It’s a hand-eye coordination technique she hasn’t mastered.

Paul was our guy who hit it just right. He even had a hole in one! We came home for naps and an early dinner, followed by ice cream and cake.

Floating in a pool this afternoon I found my mind wandering to the parts of summer I will miss most:
 The go anywhere, fly by the seat of our pants, feeling.

The swimming and beach days that include hours in the sunshine.

The length of a day feeling stretched out as we start early and end late.

The time spent with family and friends.

The ease at which my children go to sleep because they are tired after so much fun.

The natural ebb and flow of a vacation, camping, and then back to a pajama day.

Laundry, grocery shopping, and cleaning being low on the priority list.

Outdoors and play being high on the priority list.

Staying up late to watch episodes of The Daily Show with Joe, laughing until our sides hurt.

The list could go on and on, but you get it, there is plenty to be thankful for in a season that represents abundant blooming and harvesting. Life feels easy. And I will miss that as life picks up  and the pace quickens in our lives.

Aunt Kathy did not want a big party for turning sixty-five.But she did want family, pizza, and swim time, so we are definitely the people to invite.We stopped by the nursery to find the perfect plant. We decide on a plumeria (my Ba’chan’s favorite).Olivine liked the statues more than the plants.
The weather was warm enough that the kids spent a ton of time in the water.
They even played in the hot tubbut I guess that feels like an oversized bath that has the “more the merrier” feel to it.As summer winds down, so does birthday season. Joe’s is tomorrow. Fast approaching is fall and the excitement is mounting over a new baby girl arriving within a month.
And then Miss Fiona will be a big sister.Super relaxing Saturday. Happy Birthday Aunt Kathy.

Everyone wants to go to a dentist they trust. An open mouth is a vulnerable space to be in. So imagine my disappointment to discover Paul had (not only) his first cavity, but an infection. We scrambled on Friday afternoon to find an open, local office. He was given antibiotics and sensory overload with the video games and continuous kid films being played. He loved it. My eyebrows furrowed at the counter in the corner selling candy. When I pointed it out to Joe, he smiled and emphasized the “sugar free” sign. What? It’s the dentist. This is not about toys and candy. Is it? I should have seen warning signs in their mission statement that highlighted the adjective Fun.So today Steven (yes, Sun’s little brother) removed the tooth. I hate when Sun is right. (I am the one with the maiden name: Reidt) I ignored his pleas to visit his brother and now in a bind, I realized I should changed a long time ago. We still go to an Orange County dentist that was mostly due to feeling comfortable rather than the best care. Steven is knowledgable, local, safe, and good at explaining what he is doing.
Even though we had our teeth cleaned in June, I am skeptical now. I made all of us appointments in the next month. Not all at the same time, because this guy only works three days a week. But I want us to avoid as many infections as possible and receive reliable education about our teeth. Better late than never, is what I am focusing on today, to avoid the insecurities of “should have” and “if only.” No one wants to see their child in pain or poor hygiene.

If you are in Long Beach and need a good dentist, let me know, because this place is the real deal.

It takes special people to let bury you up to your neck in sand. Just watching makes me nervous.But on Sunday, we spent time with people who are very special. People we trust.

I wish every church service was given on the sand, with the Bay as the backdrop. Travis pointed out that besides the view it is also free and I have to say “amen.”

*I spent two days this summer helping my friend Pilar go through her mother’s three bedroom condo. We (a small group of us) made quick progress through the two bedrooms, bathrooms, and kitchen. It was the office, with the papers and files and boxes. I started thinking, we all did, aloud about the stuff the we keep. Oh it brought a deep ache to my heart. I hate the idea of leaving behind a mound for my children to go through. Just look at all the e-waste we found:*Plus the lingering doctor appointments and my imagination going wild. This mystery disease in my liver brings up all my feelings of frustration and fear from when Joe’s mom was diagnosed with brain cancer. Where did it come from? Why isn’t there a cure? It is all so scary. (I am currently awaiting blood tests) But this means there is no time like the present. What am I waiting for?

*Then there was the candid conversation months ago with my friend Melissa on my doorstep about the ideal closet containing only a set of clothes. The basics but able to coordinate that fit well and we like. Clothes that we like, wear often, and are versatile. My closet needs a motto that resembles my children’s toys: less is more. I don’t want to feel overwhelmed because there are so many choices. I want to enjoy and use each piece.

So I did a huge purge. To help my brain I tallied up each article by category: skirts, dresses, pants, shirts, etc. The goal was whatever the number was, I had to cut the number in half or less. Who needs 32 dresses? (I now own 17) or 24 skirts (yay for an even dozen) and 18 pairs of pants for my two legs (I own 9). These numbers come from the same lady who has stood in front of the closet unable to put an outfit together and insisting I have nothing to wear.
I found items that I could no longer figure out why I was holding on to, besides being sentimental. Like one of my favorite pair of pants that I haven’t worn in ten years:I turned the counting into a game and even made Joe play at the end. “Guess the number? “(He was so close, it was scary) He actually has half the closet now, plus we have empty space:I am even using the new hangers Pilar gave me. By the end I had tried it all on, demanding I decide if I loved the item or not, and in the process filled up 6 trashbags (4 to donate and 2 to toss).
Meanwhile Joe had gone through our craft dresser and reorganized drawers. I was equally embarassed by the strange items I had been saving. This pencil is from my middle school. Why?At least we can laugh. By the end, it is seriously one big burden lifted. I did it! I am ready for more.I feel happier than this smile shows. It is on the inside. After three babies and many different phases I just wanted to start clean. And hey, maybe I can go through my closet now every six months.

about lemonade stands is that if we see a stand, and we have cash on hand, we stop.Today the cups were 25 cents each and tasted homemade. Henry decidedly liked the sour. Our family has stopped for dozens of umbrellas and cardboard signs. We always throw in more and one day, our little guys will have a stand. I promise.

are soft and chubby.make us smile over the smallest gestures and sounds.at six months are really starting to look like themselves.can’t talk but we like to imagine and guess at what they are thinking (a little Look Who’s Talking influence).like Jake can come over anytime and keep these two infatuated, because they would love a baby for themselves.

collecting bugs
 coloring
 wrestling
 building and inventingchasing fish
watching
playing on a team relaxingclimbing

balancing
and finding as many opportunities to soak up this last week.There, (I said it), in a week this summer adventure will end. I am still in a bit of denial,until then, I am promising to make the most of it.